There has always been the
discussion and uproar of women making less money than men; while doing the same
job. Throughout America’s history, this has always been a dilemma pending on Women’s
Rights. Although there have been huge strides in the right direction for
Women’s Rights in the workforce, there are still women who have jobs where they
cannot get promotions. Not only do women make less money than men, but the
women’s age group will play a big effect in their salary as well. Also, the
ethnicity of the women will change their percentage of the ratio to what men
make. For example, a white female will make about an 81.7% ration to men who
are at 100% salary. Obviously, depending on the occupation and position the
woman is at in her career, that will affect her salary as well. Some of the
excuses that bosses have to say about women getting promotions are, “That
either they may not be able to emotionally handle it or if they become mothers,
they will not be able to put in full time at the job.” Although this may have
some truth to it, that mothers will not be able to always have the opportunity
to be a full time worker, but what does that mean for the adolescence of the
mothers? Adolescence are affected because of single mothers not able to
financially support them, their
mothers are not able to spend time with them because they are too busy working
to make up for the money that is lacking, and adolescence may not get the best educational opportunities.
Something that is a lot more
common and accepted today is: single mother homes. Single mothers are working
overtime just to be able to make due for their families. This affects not only
the mothers who have to work hard, but also the adolescence. Being that single
mothers in the workforce make less money than males, they may not always be
able to financially support their children. Adolescence needs are not always
met, because the mothers are not able to financially support their main needs. Also,
women’s wages to the men’s wages go down more, as they get older. Under those
circumstances, the single mothers who are trying to support their children on
their income alone, it will only progress to get harder to meet their needs.
Throughout the whole life of an
adolescence that lives in a single mother home, they will not always have the
luxuries that they might want or that their peers have. This also makes it
harder for the adolescence to be able to fit in with their peers, because they
cannot keep up with the trends that are popular. In my opinion, if women were
paid equally than men, finances although may still be a struggle, every little
bit more income can help improve the family and especially the adolescence
needs. Above all, adolescence lack many needs when having a single mother who
is trying to work to better her child’s life because women’s pay is less than
what men would make; even though they are doing the same job.
Consequently, single mothers who
are busy at, work trying to financially make their children’s lives better,
adolescence suffer from not getting enough time with their mothers. Women, who
are constantly working because they are the breadwinners for the family, have
limited time with giving their adolescence attention. During this time, it is
ideal that the adolescence has guidance to put them on the right-positive
paths. Single mothers may have not only lesser pay than men, but also their
work times that start them really early in the morning and are not able to get
home until later at night. Which does not give anytime for the mother to keep
track of what the adolescence is doing in their spare time from school.
In some cases, adolescence may tend to act out
or misbehave, because they do not have a constant guidance from their mothers;
who are always working. Also, adolescence who lack parental supervision,
because their mothers are working overtime, t may sway towards gangs or other
bad examples that will lead them down the wrong paths and can significantly
impact their future outcome. I believe that if women were allowed to be paid at
equal salaries than men, and not have to work so many extra hours to make up
for the lesser money, it would allow the single mothers to connect to their
adolescence down a positive path that will benefit them for their future. When
adolescence strays from the path to living a positive life, some of the things
that will suffer is their education.
As we all know, education is huge
part for adolescence in today’s life. When working single mothers are busy
enough with their career and being able to financially support their adolescence,
the important things begin get a little fuzzy. What I mean by this is, because
finances are a huge stress, the adolescences education may not be top priority.
Working overtime just to make ends meet, single mothers may not always remember
or even be able to make sure their adolescence make it to school on time or
even at all. With that being said, if the adolescence not always attending school,
they may not always finish their homework because they miss out on learning the
material. Struggling adolescence miss out on getting the best educational
opportunities. This will hold them back from future opportunities and the cycle
will begin once again.
If single mothers were able to
have equal pay, their stress over finances would not be as prevalent. This
being said, the mothers will be able to spend more time with their children and
make sure that their studies come first. Also, if an adolescent in the home is
struggling with homework, they may not always be able to get it finished
because they are confused with the material. Although they can wait until the
next day to ask the teacher, it still puts them a step behind the other
students who finish their work on time. The mothers who are constantly working
would be able to help this situation if they were able to make the same amount
of pay that a man would get, and have more time to spend with their children to
keep them on track with their education priorities.
In conclusion, it is a huge issue
for women who make less money than men; while doing the same EXACT job. Not
only is it an issue, but also it is unfair. The affects of not having equal pay
are huge, and can really damage the relationship between the mother and the
adolescence. The adolescence is robbed from having the opportunities that they
could have if only their single mother was equally paid. Not only would their
needs be covered, but their mothers would be able to have time to spend with
them and nurture them. Also, their education will not be at it’s best
opportunity because they are either not putting in the effort from not having the
support, or struggle because they cannot keep up with their classmates; from
having lack of help that their mothers could be doing. The single mothers are
working too hard for little pay and because of it, the adolescence do not get
the things that are valued the most.
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The pressure that is put on mothers to be breadwinners when trying to support their children is tremendously. Mothers, who have to be single mothers due to fathers not wanting to put in effort, or other reasons, may be placed into the category of a low socioeconomic status. I don’t just want to generalize because that’s not the case for every single mother. But, what I liked the most about your blog post was the fact that you did say something about the struggles that the mother faced, but you focused on the adolescents and how it would affect them. The post could of easily became all about gender equality, but you blended them together very well.
ReplyDeleteIf women had equal pay, the main focus of their lives wouldn’t be trying to make ends meet, but on the most important people in their lives. Without women having equal pay, adolescents are really the main people who suffer in this situation. Because of the lack of attention adolescent receive from their mothers who are working in order to make ends meet, adolescents may lack behind in school like you were saying.
I really liked this blog post because I felt like it dealt with me directly as a woman, and the injustice that still happens to my gender. It made me think about the future. If I was put into a situation where I was a single mother, and I had to work overtime in order to provide my child or children I would be forced into a rock and a hard place. I would want to spend time with my child/children, but at the same time I want to be able to provide for their main needs.